OK, is that your real hair or is it extensions. "Hahaha, it's extensions! You should get some!" Chuckles over spaghetti lunch at my favorite restaurant. It's a continuation of a conversation we've had before. The rest of the staff join in, laughing, telling me I should get extensions! Come on, guys; two weeks ago you were giving me a hard time for needing a haircut!
So tell me about your family. "Well, I have two daughters, one 8 years old and the other not quite 2." Is the older in school? "Yes, and she's doing well. I have 6 brothers and 2 sisters on my mother's side. I'm the first girl! (with a big smile). "My father has two wives, so I have 3 more brothers and 2 more sisters." Two wives?! Can you do that in Kenya? "Oh, yes. It just depends on your pocket, you know. He's 73 and works as a cleaner at the hotel. He had a 3rd wife, but she left with one kid. I live with my mom, and she takes care of my girls while I work." I tipped much bigger than usual. On the days she works, it's 8:30 AM until 10 or 11 PM. She'll make $50 - $70 per month if things are good.